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To entangle or not to entangle?

Updated: May 19, 2021

This is not so much of a question than a choice to be made by you.

What is entanglement? Entanglement is getting caught up in other peoples drama or getting caught up with your own drama.

Now, ask yourself the question, do I get caught up in drama? be it your own or someone else's.

You might not even be aware of it. I know I wasn't for a long time. I thought I was being a good friend, it's only when I came out of the friendship that I realised how toxic it was for both of us.

As a friend, you listen, you sympathise, you talk about each others problems and aware of it or not, you entangle not just in their lives but in your own too. My friend and I would go round and round in circles, talking about the same problems all the time but when you are doing this, you are repeating the same energy over and over again so nothing can change because you're caught up in each others drama. This went on for many years.

Now, don't get me wrong, we never fell out but one day, I realised that it didn't feel good to be in this friendship anymore. I always felt worse when we came off the phone from talking to one another. I needed a break and once this break was underway, I realised where we were both going wrong (as I explained in the previous paragraph), so I decided to break away from the friendship for good. It has been over 2 years now and I have grown and changed so much spiritually because I am not entangled in her drama or my own.

I had a choice to either work on our friendship or break free from it. The choice I made came from how I felt and not from reasoning with my head. I knew, in my heart, that if I worked on our friendship, nothing would really change in the long term. It would be an uphill struggle, whereas breaking free, it felt good, it felt right. I felt freer and lighter just thinking about it.

Please read my blog, moving away from entanglement, if you wish to learn more.

Sending you love ♥

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